Bobby Foster Speaks

Learn to Love From a Distance

Learning how to love from a distance. It’s hard. When I decided to focus on myself because the pain was too immense when I was around Z, I didn’t know if I was making the biggest mistake of my life. I felt like I was abandoning him. I felt like I was ruining something special, but something was calling me to leave. Maybe it was the pain; maybe it was something else, I just knew that I couldn’t stay. It was painful after the fact, not being able to see him. I felt a void. For a while, he was the only reason why I was doing anything in my life. I wanted to provide for him, I wanted to...

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Overcoming Challenges

Overcoming is something that I have had to do my whole life. When you’re born with a chronic illness, it seems that fighting it is in your DNA. When a diagnosis is in your life, there’s always this lingering feeling that you need to beat it and become better. Since that was drill into my head since I was a child, I’ve come to look at everything as an obstacle. It’s how I get my motivation. Sometimes I even create challenges when they’re not there, just because I only know how to live life when there are obstacles in front of me. Turning anything into a challenge is something I’ve been working on getting over, and the irony in that...

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Where To Find Happiness

There are a lot of blogs, books, articles, and conversations out there that talk about where to find happiness. There a few things that have become a cliche, like you can't find happiness outside yourself like you need to turn inside to find true happiness, but I believe what they mean has become skewed. When I first started my spiritual journey, I found many books that talked about these two different ideas. They seemed fascinating and revealed a lot at first. I mean it made perfect sense. How could anything outside of myself make me happy? Everything is bound to fade, so what would cause me happiness in one moment could be gone the next, there couldn't be permanent happiness...

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Re-Learning How to be Happy

Depression isn’t easy. Neither is being happy. Depression was one of the hardest things I had to go through. Not feeling motivated to do anything was terrible. What was even worse was all of the guilt, shame, and judgment that came with it. My depression made me miss crucial meetings; it made me slack off when I should’ve been trying harder, overall it just made me not want to go about my day and live my life. And because of that, I felt very guilty. I felt like I should’ve been able to get over it if I tried hard enough because it was all just in my head. When I would miss something because of it, I felt guilty...

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What You Will Learn from a Life Coach

Now that I’ve been through my sessions, I aspire to be one of the best life coaches I can be. Because of that, In this life coach blog, I want to highlight a few subjects you will learn about if you decide to work with a life coach.

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